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« on: March 06, 2007, 09:07:20 AM »

Over the years, we've heard some stories. In fact, I see and hear about many interesting things dealers tell customers due to a lack of diamond knowledge or simply to try and make the sale.

Here's an example: "A jeweler  that we know claims that the brilliance and sparkle in a yellow diamond comes from the color, not the cut, unlike white diamonds."

Say what? Let me set that one straight. Cut is important in all color diamonds, from colorless D to natural fancy vivid colored diamonds.

There is a lot of misinformation out there. So here's where you post your experiences or perhaps you've heard a similar sales pitch and you're wondering if it might be true.

This is the section where we put the diamond myths to rest.



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« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2007, 09:45:37 AM »

Hi Everyone,.
I added a little bit to this title as I was about to post this exact thread last night, cept is was time for a siesta.....
I suppose great minds think alike!
In addition to the amazing letter we got about how cut is not important in natural fancy colored diamonds, yesterday brought another very interesting episode.
It started when we sold a beautiful Light Yellow diamond of almost 3 carats to a client of ours.... a returning client.


The diamond has a "color origin" GIA report, meaning we graded the clarity, and we graded it VS1.
When I can't see anythiing at all in a diamond, we call it VS1. I dn`'t feel it's our place to call it VVS, or Internally Flawless.
The reason is that the imperfections which constitute a VVS2, or 1 are so incredibly tiny, I leave that to GIA.

Anyway, this particualr diaomnd shipped loose.
As it turns out, our client was going to have it set locally.
When she got it back, the jeweler who set it was nice enough to ask her
"why did you buy a diamond with this big black spot?"
Sure enough, the diamond has a big black spot, easily visible to our valued client.
Of course, we get a very upset phone call.
"What an I going to do?
 It's past the money back period and I do NOT want a diamond with a black spot I can see"

I actually never spoke to her yesterday.
What happened was this: She took a tissue, and wiped of a peice of gunk the person who set the diamond had left on it.
Viola- I1, back to VS1.

What really gets me is that the setter  and jewelr must have known full well what they were seeing, and in fact, I think they left it there to spoil her enjoyment..
Some people.....
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« Reply #2 on: March 06, 2007, 01:20:14 PM »

I think David must have accidentally locked this thread. It was not on purpose you guys! Post away.
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« Reply #3 on: March 06, 2007, 01:23:41 PM »

Woah!  Some jewellers will obviously stop at nothing - that's one messed up story David!

You know what I hate?  When jewellers (and I've had this happen a few times) try to tell me, "No the diamonds in that ring aren't at all warm - they are just picking up the color from the yellow gold" - even when the heads they are mounted in are WHITE.  I had one actually say, "Yes they look tinted but if you were to remove them from the setting you would see that they are completely colorless."

I still wish I told her to go get a pair of jewelry pliers.........
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« Reply #4 on: March 06, 2007, 02:15:51 PM »

Some people will say anything for a buck.......or things out of spite because they didn't get your buck!

Gosh I bet that lady will want to use your setters from now on David!!

I can't believe that DJ! They obviously didn't know what a yellow diamond was then!

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« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2007, 02:18:55 PM »

*sigh* There's just so much about that scenario that's WRONG.  I don't mean to criticize someone's coice of a jeweler, but, really, it doesn't seem her jeweler did much RIGHT during the entire transaction.  At the most basic level, wouldn't you think they'd have CLEANED the ring before showing it to a client (let alone let it leave the shop)?  Where's the pride in work here?  After that, I'd be apprehensive about the quality of workmanship performed all around on the ring.

What a shame to spoil what should have been such a fun and exciting experience. I'm afraid I must agree with David, it sounds like a bit of sour grapes to me (although, I suppose, it COULD be rampant carelessness or, perhaps, they were all just total nitwits). Regardless, I hope she loves what is sure to be a beautiful diamond...
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« Reply #6 on: March 06, 2007, 03:40:40 PM »

wow, i can't believe what some people would do to make an extra buck or two...

as for myths, how about a diamond has to be D, E, or F or it's going to look ugly?
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« Reply #7 on: March 06, 2007, 03:51:01 PM »

I can't believe that DJ! They obviously didn't know what a yellow diamond was then!

Smiley Amy


Don't anyone get me wrong, I'm open to all diamonds but for crying out loud represent them with honesty! If they are warmer in color, the jeweller could easily point out that many people prefer them that way.  If the ring is clearly meant to have icy white stones, they shouldn't try to pass off L, M, or N stones as G!  Grrrr!   thewife  It makes me really cross and I have known people to fall for it.
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« Reply #8 on: March 06, 2007, 04:09:11 PM »

I was wondering why I couldn't reply earlier on..............I so wanted to comment on what David wrote.   The customer placed such trust in David all the way up to the point of having it mounted by ANOTHER jeweler.  It really gulles me that the jeweler left a piece of slime on something so that HE can ruin the trust that she had placed on David.   Funny how the slime that he is got on the clients diamond!! LOL!!  I am surprised that the jeweler didn't go so far as switching the diamond too! evil4


Here is a story for you....I had a friend that wanted my opinion on a pair of invisible set princess cut diamond hoop earrings.    Went to the jeweler with her to check them out.    There was a huge gap in between the diamonds on one of them.   He did not offer to fix it but would give her a discount if she took them as they were...................I politely pulled her aside and said  ....no jeweler should be offering something that is defective discount or otherwise that may later on have problems down the road!  evil4  BTW, they offered to fix them at the full price. They didn't seem real confident about fixing them either!  Angry   Also reminded her that they were a dime a dozen and are overpriced anyway............

I remember when I was looking for a cushion cut diamond and went to the same place.   They had ONE....and it looked like $h*T!  Poorly cut, I1 clarity and they were asking such a freakin ridiculous price for it.  If I remember correctly, I think is was 2X more than what I paid for my cushion cut that blows that diamond away in all 4 c's!!!!!!! icon_thumleft
    

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« Reply #9 on: March 06, 2007, 04:47:38 PM »

Good example ronda. Those invisible settings are not very secure. 
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« Reply #10 on: March 07, 2007, 08:06:37 AM »

ace- That's a good one.

mskerry- We've found MANY people who LOVE the blue fluor. I think it's so cool.
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« Reply #11 on: March 08, 2007, 03:52:16 AM »

My personal favourite was a local maul jeweller who had got a bunch of branded ideal cuts and was having a big promotion on them. They were lovely, but way overpriced. The sales assistant asked if I wanted to view them through an idealscope, then handed me....

wait for it....

a magnifying glass!

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« Reply #12 on: March 08, 2007, 04:31:44 AM »

The sales assistant asked if I wanted to view them through an idealscope, then handed me....

wait for it....

a magnifying glass!

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« Reply #13 on: March 08, 2007, 07:48:06 AM »

OMG!  Jen, tell me that was your cue to flee the store amid screams of laughter!!!  Geez!  I think even a clueless jewelry shopper knows what a magnifying glass looks like!

Another pet peeve of mine is when you go in and ask for a loupe, only to have the sales assistant decide she knows best.  She's there holding it at arms length a couple of inches away from the piece while closing one eye and saying, "Looks good to me!"  I can't tell you how many times I have rolled my eyes, taken the loupe and checked a piece out properly.  At that point you can see the penny drop in the sales persons eyes.  "Yes, dear, I know what I'm talking about and I have indeed sussed that you don't........."
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« Reply #14 on: March 08, 2007, 08:19:37 AM »

Not all jewelers are clueless. But so many hire people that are! I was in Atlanta last year and stopped in some stores and even the sales pitches I overheard were insane.

"The VS1 will be clearer than the SI1" The sales guy was telling a lady that LITERALLY the diamond was more CLEAR as a VS1, implying that as an SI1 it was cloudy and undesirable.

When I went and looked at yellow diamonds, they all told me they were "canary diamonds". Okay, they are known that way and they thought I was a consumer. But when I asked what the grade was, they just said it was yellow. One told me fancy yellow when it was not nearly that yellow.  There weren't many colored diamonds, but when I did find one in a store, I did not find anyone qualified to tell me info about it.
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« Reply #15 on: March 08, 2007, 01:40:04 PM »

Acebruin, I fell about and laughed like your smilies are doing now.  Then I headed for the door, DJ.

Actually, that's not quite true. An overwhelming sense of morbid curiosity made me stay awhile and ask for a bit of information about buying diamonds and what to look for...

DH was so embarrassed he began to twitch. Grin

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« Reply #16 on: March 08, 2007, 01:50:57 PM »

Jen, a magnifying glass!?! That's a good one! What an idiot.

WM, I know what you mean about people not knowing yellow diamonds. I've only found about 2 jewelers in my area that carry yellow diamonds. I'd NEVER buy one from them, but I stopped to check em out. All the sales guy knew was that they were called "Canaries" but he had no clue what Y-Z, FLY, FY....etc was!  1087

DJ, I think every jeweler should have a loupe on them. I'd be very suspicious of them if they didn't! I actually carry one in my purse all the time!

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« Reply #17 on: March 08, 2007, 01:51:23 PM »

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I have an H with strong blue fluorescence, and I LOVE IT.
No oily clouds in my little rock.



My ER diamond is also an H with strong blue fluorescence.  It certainly doesn't look cloudy, oily, or anything of the kind!  Like yours, it's a beautiful diamond, IMO.

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« Reply #18 on: March 08, 2007, 02:02:52 PM »

So, I just learned something new-- there really IS something called an "idealscope."  Who knew?  (Well, lots of you, probably, but not I!)  However, it evidently looks NOTHING like a magnifying glass!

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« Reply #19 on: March 08, 2007, 02:07:37 PM »

If I remember right, Snooper owns an idealscope.....
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« Reply #20 on: March 08, 2007, 02:59:47 PM »

are imagescope and idealscope the same?
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DJ, I think every jeweler should have a loupe on them. I'd be very suspicious of them if they didn't! I actually carry one in my purse all the time!

Smiley Amy


I carry a loupe too. I thought I was just a bit odd, so good to know there are others out there...

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« Reply #22 on: March 08, 2007, 04:33:33 PM »

I have one with my name engraved on it!  I don't normally carry it with me though. 
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« Reply #23 on: March 08, 2007, 11:36:49 PM »

I do have an idealscope.  This weekend I'll take a pic of the actual thing.  Really basic.  Basically, according to the scope manufacture, yada yada, it's suppose to show you the light leakage (to help you better pick the stone you want if your naked eye can't differentiate).  The more red=less leakage in a nut shell.

I don't use it to determine a well cut diamond, but it's fun to play with:)
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« Reply #24 on: March 08, 2007, 11:43:40 PM »

Oh! And, the magnifying glass?? My eyes did this:  freakout

I know some people will go to the mauls and just to see what BS sales pitch they'll be given, but frankly, I hate when people think the consumer is stupid! Although I will admit, I have been tempted... I'll go in, just look and leave while shopping, but I have yet to inquire about a piece. 

OH wait.  I got one... Although it's a tiny story.
Once I had this chain maul clean my ring and the sales lady said, "Oh don't you just love WG" and I go, "yeah I do", blah blah.  And she said, "I'm glad you went with WG as your stone really pops."  And I said, "It says Pt 950 and that stands for platinum..." yeah, she was less chatty after that...

Ok, I just realized I do have stories for this thread! LOL I have been neglecting it as I didn't "have" any! HAHA
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